Curt, I've noticed many of the same criticisms here and in other places too. The one that seems a little over the top to me is the over the top anger with Ramirez. Not that he's been good...but he's far from the biggest problem.
Outside of homerun power, his hitting is pretty much in line with his career numbers. He has always been questionable defensively...he hasn't declined that far this year. Basically, if he had 3-5 more homers (which he could have had with a little better weather in early-mid April), he'd be right where you'd expect for a player of his ability and injury history going into decline.
Again, not saying he's good...but he's far from the same category as Soriano, the rest of the non-fukudome outfield, the starting staff outside Zambrano & Garza, etc.